Photo by Sarah Davis

Queer Kentucky has partnered with Louisville Magazine for our fourth print issue. We asked Louisvillians and Kentuckians at large about their queerness and its relationship to the city, where they feel at home, who was there for them when it felt like nobody else was, the biggest issues facing Louisville’s queer communities, and much more. In this issue, you will find stories of Queer Kentuckians telling tales of their beloved safe spaces, paying tribute to the loved ones who uplifted them when no one else would, laughing about their coming out stories, and so much more. Kentucky, and Louisville, have a lot of work left to do when it comes to embracing the queer community. But hey, it’s not as bad as people think it is. Read on, you’ll see. 

Megan Miller

Highlands Douglass, she/her

Who was the person you chose to come out to?

Hmmm, I don’t think I ever officially came out to anyone. Just kind of started mentioning going on dates with not-men.

Besides your own house — or the house of family or friends — what Louisville place makes you feel at home?

I’m originally from Michigan, but I’ve been in the Louisville area for ten-ish years. I feel at home walking in my neighborhood, at Big Rock Park and at the Douglass Loop Farmers’ Market. As much as I love to drive to Jefferson Memorial Forest or even Red River Gorge to go for a hike, sometimes I don’t have the time or energy. Walking in my neighborhood resets me and grounds me.

Who was there for you when it felt like nobody else was?

Margret, a friend I reconnected with earlier this year. The relationship we have developed has grown into such a caring friendship. I feel like we have been there for each other through hard and difficult times this year.

What’s the biggest issue facing Louisville’s LGBTQ+ communities?

What do you think would help solve that issue? For me, it has been trying to find spaces that are not alcohol-centered. I am happy to be participating in a new bicycling group, Queers with Gears 502.