Feeling at Home in Louisville: Michael Munc Coots
Queer Kentucky has partnered with Louisville Magazine for our fourth print issue. We asked Louisvillians and Kentuckians at large about their queerness and its relationship to the city, where they feel at home, who was there for them when it felt like nobody else was, the biggest issues facing Louisville’s queer communities, and much more. In this issue, you will find stories of Queer Kentuckians telling tales of their beloved safe spaces, paying tribute to the loved ones who uplifted them when no one else would, laughing about their coming out stories, and so much more. Kentucky, and Louisville, have a lot of work left to do when it comes to embracing the queer community. But hey, it’s not as bad as people think it is. Read on, you’ll see. You can purchase the print version of this issue here.
Pioneer Village, he/him
Besides your own house — or the house of family or friends — what Louisville place makes you feel at home?
With all the upset from the past few years, there really isn’t a place I feel at home. I’ve lived most of my life semi-closeted to appease my Southern Baptist family. The two places where I felt most comfortable in were the Connection and Tryangles when they were still on the scene.They both always gave me a sense of belonging when I walked through their doors.
What piece of art — a book, a painting, a movie, a TV show, etc. — means the most to you?
Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer. The message that we are all misfits, yet worthy of love, rings so true to the gay experience.
Why’d you pick that photo?
My good friend Bill was always ready to support me, and we had many adventures together. He had a car when I did not, so he supplied the wheels for our outings. Bill was like a brother; we had shared so much in eight years of friendship, so it was only natural to share my, at that time, secret with him. His love and support helped me feel good about myself. Today, we don’t see each other often, but when we do, our 50 years of friendship keeps us bonded.
Anything about how you identify that you’d like to share?
I am a cisgender, currently single gay man.
