Feeling at Home in Louisville: Tyler Bond
Queer Kentucky has partnered with Louisville Magazine for our fourth print issue. We asked Louisvillians and Kentuckians at large about their queerness and its relationship to the city, where they feel at home, who was there for them when it felt like nobody else was, the biggest issues facing Louisville’s queer communities, and much more. In this issue, you will find stories of Queer Kentuckians telling tales of their beloved safe spaces, paying tribute to the loved ones who uplifted them when no one else would, laughing about their coming out stories, and so much more. Kentucky, and Louisville, have a lot of work left to do when it comes to embracing the queer community. But hey, it’s not as bad as people think it is. Read on, you’ll see. You can purchase the print version of this issue here.
Besides your own house — or the house of family or friends — what Louisville place makes you feel at home?
I grew up in a very small town in Eastern Kentucky, and Louisville, and the Highlands specifically, is the most at home and comfortable I have ever felt in being myself without judgment.
Who was the person you chose to come out to?
My best friend, Alexis, because very early on, she made me understand from her personality and beliefs that she accepted all types of people with no judgment. Years later, she actually came out herself.
What piece of art — a book, a painting, a movie, a TV show, etc. — means the most to you?
It sounds silly to say, but truthfully: Hannah Montana. It was a very comforting show for me as a child. I remember several instances in my young- er years when I was told that it was for girls, but I didn’t care. I just loved it. Then Miley became vocal about LGBTQ+ rights and, eventually, out herself.
What’s the biggest issue facing Louisville’s LGBTQ+ communities?
What do you think would help solve that issue? Coming where I’m from, Louisville feels leap years ahead regarding LGBTQ+ acceptance. Always more room for queer spaces and events.
Why’d you pick that photo?
It reminds me of the complicated relationship I have with home. But also, I recognize and see that little gay boy, and it brings up all of the emotions.